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If you've ever been left wondering where it all went wrong after a break-up, a new website and app promises to help you find out.
Curious singletons who log onto
WotWentWrong can use an online form to get back in touch with their ex and find out just why their relationship hit the skids.
The service is completely free and users can choose from 11 different templates so that they can make their request for information sound 'flippant' or 'cool', if they wish.
Their ex is then given a rough structure for their response and can choose from a number of options, or write their own - but the emphasis is firmly on being 'nice'.
Feedback is broken down into two sections: positive feedback, where your ex lists your positive traits, and constructive feedback - where they tell you why things didn't work out.
Categories that describe the things that bothered them about the relationship include, 'Physical', 'It's not you' and 'Lifestyle', with more specific options including, 'You don't pay for dinner when we go out', 'You don't make me feel attractive', and 'You text instead of calling'.
The app's developer, Audrey Melnick, believes that WotWentWrong can help people get back in touch with an ex without seeming needy or desperate.
She believes that this makes it easier to learn from past mistakes and increases the chances of of getting it right next time. She says that the app is designed to help users get 'closure' and help them move on if the object of their affections suddenly stops calling or if they never hear back from someone after what they thought was a great first date.
Although presumably it could also make you feel rubbish if you find out that Mr Right never called because he doesn't fancy you, thinks you're a bad kisser and found you boring.
Melnick says: "WotWentWrong is the breakup app for couples who never really broke up. Instead, someone just faded away, and the lack of explanation makes it difficult for the other party to move on. We're providing a socially acceptable way to tie up the loose ends, learn from what happened and improve your dating Zen for the next relationship - no stalking required."
Just to encourage them to respond, users are told that they will be able to find out whether their ex found them attractive or thought they were good in bed - but only when they have submitted their feedback.
Which begs the question, would you tell someone who dumped you without an explanation that they were gorgeous and red hot in the sack? No, us neither...
Would you use WotWentWrong? Let us know below...
Click on the image below for some celebrity break-up hair...
- Cameron Diaz
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- Sarah Harding
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Maybe blondes don't have more fun - Sarah Harding ditched her lighter locks in favour of red hot waves in September 2011, soon after her split from fiance Tom Crane.</p>
- Ashlee Simpson
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Ashlee got a head start on her dramatic hair makeover - going for a platinum pixie cut a few months before her split from Pete Wentz became official news.</p>
- Scarlett Johansson
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- Olivia Wilde
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After eight years of marriage, Olivia split from hubby Tao Ruspoli in February 2011. She decided to lighten up after the news, keeping her signature long locks and fringe but adding some ombre caramel highlights.</p>
- Sandra Bullock
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Just days after her Oscar win came reports of trouble in paradise between Bullock and her unfaithful hubby Jesse James. She updated her look with a trendy blunt cut.</p>
- Jennifer Love Hewitt
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Jennifer and <em>Ghost Whisperer</em> co-star Jamie Kennedy broke up after a year of dating in March 2010; Jennifer lopped off her tumbling waves and debuted a wavy bob hairstyle.</p>
- Reese Witherspoon
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- Britney Spears
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When Britney and Kevin called it quits in 2006, the singer went through a dark time - as reflected in her newly dyed brunette shade. While the look is less flattering than her blonde mane, it's a lot better than the hair makeover she gave herself in 2007: Full head shave.</p>
- Kim Kardashian
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After making it through a whopping 72 days of marriage, Kim and Kris Humphries called it quits. Kim coped with the breakup by encasing herself in a skintight, cleavage-exposing mini-dress and debuting a heavily extensioned, fringed hairdo.</p>
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